Unemployed husband won’t take his job search seriously, has me paying his loans. What should I do?
Question: “Am I wrong for being frustrated that my husband is unemployed?
Help! My husband is 26 and has been jobless since April of 2020. He’s applied for things but hasn’t taken it seriously, and his unemployment ran out long ago. He has struggled with anxiety, which I’m sympathetic to, and I know can make some jobs difficult. But at this point it feels like he’s using it as a crutch. He refuses to apply to any job he feels is beneath him or will make him uncomfortable. I asked him to apply for disability if he feels his anxiety is too bad to work. He refused and said his anxiety isn’t that bad.