Question: “My husband and I are about to announce the gender of our first baby. We have had two previous pregnancies that resulted in miscarriages, and our parents really shared in our pain and grieved those loses. We thought it would be nice to let our parents know the gender first, as they have been through so much. My husband’s sister called us a few days ago to find out what we were having, but we explained we weren’t going to tell her until after we told our parents. She said that was OK.