Things are awkward but that’s not a bad thing

Am I talking too much? Am I not talking long enough? Did they know that was a joke?

After a year of very few social interactions outside of phone calls and Zooms, getting back to in-person social situations has me feeling awkward.  

Due to the coronavirus pandemic, many of us have been staying inside and have been disconnected from family and friends, which means our social skills have not been exercised – leaving me feeling like a rambling weirdo at times. 

And don’t get me wrong, I’m so happy and grateful to be vaccinated and able to start making plans with loved ones again, but these outings also make me feel a bit socially awkward and anxious. 

For me, it’s not uncomfortable asking the people I want to socialize with if they are vaccinated, although I know for many it is – it’s mostly just in the planning process and the interactions themselves.

diagnosed anxiety disorders.My colleague David Oliver spoke to people living with anxiety disorders to learn about the one thing they wish people knew. Here’s a sampling of their responses:

Uba Okereke, 34: “I tell people to always have grace with those who suffer from anxiety. We are wired different and function a bit abnormal than most but we should be valued and loved by those closest to us.”

Susan Roylance, 61: “Anxiety, just like a physical ailment, is real. It causes real, physical symptoms and if you can’t support or understand or help a person don’t make fun of them, don’t make light of what they are suffering.”

To read more of their responses and to learn more about living with anxiety, click here. 

Today’s reads

• Still working from home? Here’s how to find the perfect place in your home for a remote workspace
• Remember this viral YouTube video? Now’s your chance to watch it before it’s removed from the platform on Sunday
• How are you supposed to socialize your pandemic baby while you’re fearful of exposing them to COVID-19? We had experts weigh in
• Planning a trip? Here’s your guide to the countries open to fully vaccinated Americans

Today’s pet

Meet Millie.

“She’s loved having us work from home – lots of extra walks and napping close by during conference calls! And she’s always available for some cuddles,” writes Laurie Scott.

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